Squabbling Saints

The hosts begin by debating whether Friday Night Lights is worth watching and discussing actors like Michael B. Jordan and Taylor Kitsch, then shift to Chris’s recent young adults retreat in Ottawa where he spoke about idols and time management. They describe young adults as eager for authenticity, quick to identify and surrender idols, and more willing than older adults to admit struggles, while older people often protect facades, fear judgment, and prioritize image. They argue worship is for God rather than personal preference and emphasize biblical commands for expressive worship, urging people to drop “dignity” and approach God with clean hands and a pure heart. They discuss confession, a planned deliverance curriculum for their team, reducing screens, parenting with proactive honesty, and themes of songs, dancing with Jesus, and bird song as a prophetic picture of morning.
00:00 Friday Night Lights Debate
00:51 Taylor Kitsch Who
02:00 Movie Watchlist Plans
02:54 Young Adults Retreat Recap
04:50 Why Youth Spot Idols Fast
08:02 Adults Image And Facades
10:34 Confession And Deliverance Weekend
19:04 Messy Worship Over Dignity
21:28 Commands For Expressive Worship
23:45 Heart Leads The Body
24:43 Softening Your Heart
25:06 Tears in His Presence
26:12 Prophetic Authority Story
27:27 Clean Hands Pure Heart
27:59 Worship Is Not About You
29:41 Screens and Distractions
31:33 Fix Your Eyes on Jesus
34:35 Early Morning Motives
37:50 Authenticity for a Generation
39:41 Parenting Real Conversations
46:15 Dancing and Birdsong
51:28 Wrapping Up and Next Topics

In this episode, the we discuss a wide range of topics including the Winter Olympics, personal experiences with winter weather, and the importance of accountability within the church and personal life. They touch on recent scandals in the charismatic church movement, emphasize the need for authentic relationships and accountability, and underline the significance of relying on God and community to maintain spiritual health. The conversation also includes practical steps for fostering accountability and the role of prayer in inviting God into every area of life.
 
00:00 Rolling with the Punches
00:16 Winter Woes and Weather Talk
02:14 Olympic Fever
03:06 The Magic of Figure Skating
06:22 Winter Sports and Injuries
10:04 The Importance of Accountability
20:08 Exposing False Prophets
33:24 The Downfall of Ministries: Pride and Accountability
35:30 The Importance of Building Genuine Relationships
37:34 Public Accountability for Public Ministries
39:03 Navigating Hurt and Maintaining Faith
41:45 The Role of Accountability in Personal Growth
49:23 Creating a Culture of Accountability in Churches
53:30 The Dangers of Idolizing Leaders and Worship
56:59 Practical Steps to Establish Accountability
01:05:02 Encouragement to Seek Accountability and Redemption

In this episode of Squabbling Saints, the hosts begin by celebrating their producer Lyndsay's birthday and reflect on the fast-paced end of January. They share personal experiences and insights from a recent 'soul fast' their church undertook, which involved abstaining from media and social media to focus on spiritual growth. Key highlights include testimonies of answered prayers, the value of consecrating specific times and places for worship, and cultivating intimacy with God. The episode also touches on the importance of setting priorities, the concept of waiting on the Lord, and maintaining a balance between spiritual devotion and daily responsibilities. The hosts emphasize that it’s never too late to start dedicating time to God and encourage listeners to experience the transformation that comes from focusing on Him.
 
00:00 Birthday Wishes and Celebrations
01:45 Reflecting on January
04:30 Soul Fast and Encounter Weekend
06:40 Morning Prayer and Testimonies
16:15 Consecration and Intentionality
28:13 Social Media Detox Reflections
31:40 Social Media Overload
32:01 AI and Social Media Management
32:49 Dream Interpretation
33:16 Haircut Nightmare
34:56 Social Media Anxiety
39:42 Consecrated Time and Space
42:59 Intimacy with God
52:21 Encouragement and Final Thoughts

In the first podcast of 2026, Chris & Justine reflect on their journey, recounting their busy 2025 year-end and personal challenges during the holiday season. They dive into their New Year resolutions and the significance of setting priorities aligned with spiritual growth. They discuss the concept of having a 'word for the year,' share personal goals, and emphasize the importance of recognizing and adapting to different life seasons. Both highlight the spiritual and physical well-being connections, with a focus on maintaining a balance in life. The episode touches on topics such as the difference between male and female rhythms, the significance of gratitude, and practical steps toward achieving uncommon spiritual and physical goals.
 
00:00 Welcome to 2026: First Podcast of the Year
00:43 Reflecting on the Holidays: Christmas Chaos and Weight Gain
01:38 Belts and Fashion Trends: A Nostalgic Discussion
04:05 New Year Resolutions: Gym Rush and Vanity
04:49 Spiritual Reflections: Church Attendance and Fitness Analogies
15:06 Historical Context: Origins of New Year's Resolutions
18:03 Personal Words for the Year: Health, Restoration, and Fulfillment
23:57 Seasons of Life: Recognizing and Embracing Change
28:11 Uncommon Pursuits: Striving for a Deeper Connection with God
35:41 Morning Routine and Spiritual Commitment
36:20 Making Healthier Choices for Marriage
36:51 Tracking Sleep and Accountability
37:13 Personal Spiritual Goals
37:45 Implementing Spiritual Practices
38:23 Adapting Spiritual Practices to Life Stages
38:42 The Importance of Morning Prayer
39:09 Finding Fulfillment in Daily Life
39:46 Listening to God's Guidance
39:58 Unexpected Spiritual Encounters
42:44 The Role of Gratitude
44:44 Balancing Physical and Spiritual Health
46:07 Understanding Seasonal Changes in Life
47:48 Differences in Male and Female Productivity
50:31 Physical Health and Spiritual Well-being
01:04:22 Setting Priorities for the New Year
01:06:32 Conclusion and Social Media Engagement

In this episode, the hosts welcome Selina, who shares her transformative journey from a double life of church involvement and personal struggles to a true realization of God's love and lordship. The discussion covers a wide range of topics including the importance of hydration, cultural differences in measurements, and seasonal challenges of water consumption. Selina's story delves into her childhood love for worship and singing, her experiences with anxiety and manipulation, and her ultimate deliverance and commitment to living for God. The hosts also discuss the concepts of lordship, deliverance, and the renewing of the mind, providing a detailed explanation of these theological ideas. This episode blends personal anecdotes with deep theological discussions, offering listeners insights into overcoming life's challenges through faith. We also give 3 resources from trusted authors who offer different perspectives, but all come to the same end; deliverance for Christians is beneficial. 
 
00:00 Introduction and Hydration Talk
01:00 Winter Water Struggles
02:49 Selina's Introduction
04:05 Selina's Background and Childhood
11:42 Selina's Teenage Years and Double Life
13:17 Encountering God's Unconditional Love
28:36 Ministry School and Personal Struggles
33:25 Reflecting on God's Guidance
33:51 A Vivid Dream and Spiritual Manipulation
36:22 Leaving the Bible Study Group
37:43 Journey into Deliverance
40:51 Understanding Deliverance and Spiritual Warfare
47:40 The Importance of Renewing the Mind
56:38 Consequences and Strongholds
01:00:25 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement
 
From Today's Episode:
They Shall Expel Demons - Derek Prince
https://www.derekprince.com/books/they-shall-expel-demons
Keys for Deliverance - Jake Kail
https://jakekail.com/podcasts/keys-for-deliverance/
Deliverance - Jon Thompson
https://jonthompsonresources.com/deliverance-book/
 

This episode discusses the importance of maintaining a focus on Christ during the Christmas season. The hosts reflect on their personal holiday traditions, the significance of Advent, and how to integrate Christ-centered activities into family celebrations. They talk about the challenges of balancing fun holiday activities with spiritual reflection, suggest resources like devotionals and the Jesus Storybook Bible, and emphasize the importance of establishing traditions that bring deeper meaning to the holiday beyond the commercial aspects.
 
00:00 Introduction and Cadence of Speech
00:12 Performative Prayer and Self-Reflection
00:33 Licorice and Conversation Dynamics
01:30 ADHD and Interruptions
02:22 Instagram Reels and Humor
03:24 Vanilla Coke and Eggnog Debates
06:59 Christmas Traditions and Memories
15:26 Expectations and Anxiety During Christmas
18:56 Keeping Christ in Christmas
28:00 Keeping Christ at the Center of Christmas
28:26 The Joy of Giving
31:30 Advent Traditions and Their Significance
36:15 The Deeper Meaning of Christmas
40:21 Reflecting on the Christmas Story
52:10 Favourite Christmas Songs and Traditions
56:08 Concluding Thoughts and Christmas Wishes

In this episode of 'Squabbling Saints,' we dive into the complexities of women in ministry, discussing whether biblical directives are meant for all churches or specific contexts. They explore the balance between certainty in Jesus and the inherent uncertainties of following Him, sharing personal anecdotes and scripture. The conversation also touches on modern ministry challenges, the significance of generosity, and the comfort found in God's guidance despite life's unpredictable nature.
 
00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts
00:04 Context of Women in Ministry
00:44 Temple Prostitutes and Converts
01:53 Debate on Women as Pastors
03:58 Personal Experiences and Challenges
09:52 Certainty and Faith in Uncertainty
20:30 Peace and Trust in God's Plan
27:57 Surrendering Control to Jesus
28:16 Paul's Unshakeable Faith
29:08 The Illusion of Certainty
30:08 Generosity and Stewardship
34:39 The Heart of Generosity
40:05 The Challenge of Pastoral Longevity
43:40 Embracing Uncertainty in Ministry
51:48 Faith in Action: Trusting God's Plan
56:57 Concluding Thoughts on Faith and Uncertainty

In this podcast episode, the Chris and Justine dive into the challenges of navigating busy seasons, particularly around holidays, and the importance of maintaining spiritual health and family bonds amidst the chaos. They discuss the pressures associated with societal expectations, the balance between activities and rest, and the significance of making time for personal devotion and family time. Key highlights include stories about finding specific Bible scriptures, the importance of gratitude, practical tips for establishing a healthy rhythm, and the essential role of community and accountability in spiritual growth. 
 
00:00 Navigating the Bible: A Humorous Start
01:25 Musical Mishaps and Learning Curves
04:22 Thanksgiving Reflections and Sweater Stories
08:49 Holiday Stress and Planning
14:38 Balancing Busy Seasons with Spiritual Health
17:21 The Importance of Rest and Connection
20:38 Slowing Down in a Fast-Paced World
31:12 Building Bonds with Children and God
31:56 Prioritizing Your Calendar with Faith
32:50 The Power of Stillness and Worship
36:17 David's Example of Seeking God
40:14 The Importance of Gratitude
47:42 Accountability and Spiritual Growth
57:45 Thriving Through Difficult Seasons
01:01:19 Engaging with Our Audience

In this episode, the hosts discuss the challenges and responsibilities Christians face when engaging on social media, especially in times of heightened emotions and public scrutiny. They explore anecdotes about personal interactions, public disputes, and how to handle online conflicts in a way that aligns with Christian values. The episode features discussions on the importance of unity, thoughtful reflection, and the power of private conversations becoming public lessons in reconciliation. Featuring examples like the feud and subsequent reconciliation between Forrest Frank and Cory Asbury, the hosts emphasize the need for love, humility, and wisdom in all public and private interactions.
 
00:00 Convincing Rosie to Watch Star Wars
01:35 Handling Conflict and Embracing Discomfort
02:28 The Influence of Repetition and Practice
05:41 The Rise of the 'Six Seven' Trend
09:12 Social Media's Impact on Perception
09:33 The Aftermath of Charlie Kirk's Assassination
10:57 Navigating Social Media Etiquette as Christians
13:43 The Dangers of Quick Reactions on Social Media
20:07 The Importance of Thoughtful Reflection
31:37 Personal Reflections on Social Media Pressure
32:20 Motivations Behind Social Media Posts
32:51 Navigating Online Conflicts with Love
34:00 The JK Rowling and Emma Watson Debate
36:00 The Role of Accountability in Online Interactions
36:47 The Importance of Unity Among Christians
44:58 Forrest Frank's Testimony and Online Presence
47:57 Handling Public and Private Conflicts
51:36 The Power of Reconciliation and Humility
56:41 Final Thoughts on Social Media and Personal Impact

In this episode of Squabbling Saints, the hosts welcome Brett Ullman, a speaker and author, to discuss practical ways to enhance marriage and parenting. They talk about various aspects such as household management, communication, intimacy, and the importance of having fun and shared purpose in a marriage. Brett shares insights from his book 'Navigating Parenting' and various tools like the 'Flywheel' to assess and improve marriage health. They also touch on the significance of open communication about sex and parenting, balancing screen time, and the importance of community support. The episode emphasizes the importance of small, intentional changes to create a healthier family dynamic.
 
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:34 Special Guest: Brett Ulman
01:25 Brett Ullman's Ministry Journey
03:55 Transition to Online Courses and Psychotherapy
08:23 Holistic Approach to Mental Health
16:52 Navigating Marriage and Parenting Challenges
27:21 Father-Son Practice and Family Dynamics
27:32 Introducing the Flywheel Concept
28:47 Weekly Marriage Meetings
29:21 Common Weaknesses in Marriages
30:18 The Importance of Fun in Relationships
31:15 Communication and Intimacy
32:59 Addressing Sex and Intimacy in Church
38:30 Parenting Styles and Responsibilities
41:47 Balancing Household Responsibilities
48:57 The Role of Men in Relationships
55:18 The Importance of Fun and Novelty
57:10 Cherished Family Vacations
57:29 Building Strong Family Bonds
58:45 The Importance of Purpose in Relationships
59:04 John Gottman's Sound Relationship House
01:00:40 Faith and Community Involvement
01:01:43 Balancing Personal Goals and Family Support
01:04:50 Effective Communication Techniques
01:08:09 The Role of Media and Technology in Family Life
01:16:30 Encouraging Reading and Learning
01:19:59 Concluding Thoughts and Resources